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Masturbation

What You Did Not Know

1. There's no such thing as "abnormal" masturbation.

Men often wonder if there's something abnormal about the way they masturbate. But experts are loath to offer specific definitions of "normal" and "abnormal," pointing out that men show great variations in both frequency and technique. "We humans are too diverse to establish a norm," says Betty Dodson, PhD, a New York City-based sexologist and the author of Sex for One. Every man masturbates in his own way, says Martha Cornog, the author of The Big Book of Masturbation, whether he "uses his hands, rubs against something, uses a sex toy or household object, wears special clothing, fantasizes, looks at a book or magazine, tries different positions, or looks in a mirror."

2. Masturbation is very safe -- but not entirely safe.

Unlike sex with a partner, masturbation can't give you a sexually transmitted disease. Nor will it subject you to the muscle strains, pokes in the eye, and awkward moments that can come with partner sex. But masturbation safety isn't guaranteed. "Masturbation is just about the safest sex there is," says Cornog. "But the laws of physics and biology don't stop operating just because someone is masturbating."

Frequent or overly vigorous masturbation can irritate the skin of the penis, as the average guy knows all too well. Less well known is that habitually masturbating face down -- for example, by thrusting against a sheet, pillow, or even a carpeted floor -- can injure the urethra in such a way that urine exits the penis not in a stream but in a hard-to-control spray. Barbara Bartlik, MD, a psychiatrist and sex therapist in New York City, says she's seen facedown masturbators with urethral trauma so severe that they are no longer able to use a urinal and must urinate while seated.

In certain extremely rare instances, masturbation and partner sex alike can cause penile fracture. This painful condition -- actually a tear in the tunica albuginea, the whitish tissue surrounding the penis's spongy layers -- occurs when an erect penis strikes a hard object or is forced downward. A medical emergency, it often necessitates surgery.

3. Solo sex can supercharge your sex life -- or scuttle it.

For various reasons, solo sex can be a real boon to sex with a partner. It helps teach men about their own sexual response -- what feels good to them and what doesn't -- so they will be better able to explain to their partners just how they like to be touched. It helps men learn to recognize the "moment of inevitability" just before orgasm and helps teach them how to avoid premature ejaculation. Perhaps most significant, it's a great coping mechanism for any man whose partner is temporarily unavailable for sex -- because of absence or illness -- or has a sex drive that doesn't quite match his own (something sex therapists call a disparity in frequency preference).

Of course, some men become so obsessed with solo sex that they begin to lose interest in having sex with their partner. The resulting hurt feelings and alienation a partner feels can make it hard to sustain the relationship. But experts are quick to point out that masturbation is perfectly OK even for men in a committed relationship. "We cannot assume that just because a man masturbates that there is a problem with his primary relationship," says Bartlik.

4. Certain forms of masturbation can lead to sexual dysfunction.

Experts warn that men who frequently stimulate themselves in ways that don't simulate sex with a partner -- for example, stroking very rapidly or with great pressure or friction -- can develop retarded ejaculation. That's a type of sexual dysfunction in which it is difficult or even impossible to climax during partnered sex.

"Any man experiencing any sexual dysfunction should ask himself if he's masturbating in ways that produce sensations that differ from those he gets from his partner's hand, mouth, or vagina," says Michael A. Perelman, PhD, clinical associate professor of psychiatry, reproductive medicine, and urology at Weill Cornell Medical College in New York City and the president of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research "Then he should consider what he could say to her to make the stimulation more similar -- and how he could change the way he masturbates to make it feel more similar to what his partner does."

5. Masturbation may affect the risk for prostate cancer.

The relationship between masturbation and prostate cancer is a bit hazy.

A 2003 Australian study published in BJU International linked frequent ejaculation early in life with reduced risk for prostate cancer later on. But in a 2004 study published in The Journal of the American Medical Association, a researcher reported that "ejaculation frequency is not related to increased risk of prostate cancer." In both these studies, ejaculation frequency included sexual intercourse and masturbation.

In a later study published in BJU International, researchers found that frequent masturbation in young men raised the risk for prostate cancer but that frequent masturbation in older men lowered the risk. Sexual intercourse did not affect prostate cancer risk.

The researchers theorize that it may not be the masturbation itself which is increasing risk of prostate cancer in men who masturbate frequently in their 20s and 30s. Men who masturbate more may do so because they have high levels of male sex hormones -- and young men genetically predisposed to have hormone-sensitive prostate cancer will be at higher risk if they have more male hormones. In men over age 50, the researchers theorize, frequent masturbation helps drain the prostate of fluids that may contain cancer-causing substances.

Mature Married Women

Where are all the married women in East TN???

Knoxville
Strawberry Plains
Loudon

Jefferson City

Dandridge

Newport

Morristown

Sevierville

White Pine

Bulls Gap

Douglas Lake
Cherokee Lake

Married Male here - looking for married females who are looking for something more than what they have a home, while not looking to replace what they have at home.

We can explore:

D/s and either way is fine with me

Anal play if you'd like

Oral play, cuming on me as often and as much as you can

Just send me an email

Femdoms

What is a Femdom?

Femdom is the acronym for female domination, also Female Dominant.

Femdom is about the empowerment of the woman. For absolutely no reason other than the simple fact that she was born Woman. When a slave, submissive, or masochist of either gender offer the woman the title of "Mistress", a.k.a. "Femdom"; she is empowered with certain rights and privileges that are outside the bounds and constraints that mainstream society have placed upon her as an ordinary woman. These rights and privileges are hers, and hers alone, and may not be bought, sold, shared, or traded. The person offering this title consents by free will to submit, and obey the will and whim of the "Mistress".

First of all Femdom is neither S&M, nor is it B&D. It is about the wants, needs, and desires of the woman who now rightfully owns the title of "Mistress". However once a woman has been offered the title of mistress, and she has accepted it. It does becomes her right and privilege to beat, humiliate and degrade her slave as if it were S&M or B&D.

Because Femdom is by the very core of it's nature, and that nature being, as I have stated above. Is all about the womans' wants, need, and desires. It is also about the womans' orgasm. So it is the womans' right and privilege to expect, or otherwise require that her slave will provide for her orgasm upon her slightest whim, and that her slave will keep her, the Mistress, very well supplied with an infinite number of orgasm. Please note, how and in what manner is of her choosing never the slaves'.

The "Mistress", the woman, has the right and privilege to do all these things with no expectation or obligation to reciprocate in any like kind manner. As well as having no need to ask anything of her slave. She commands or at the very least she tells her slave what she wants, but never asking, and has every right to expect nothing less than submission and the obedience of her slave. She also has no obligation what so ever to explain herself to her slave.

There is one thing the "Mistress" must do, and it is absolutely inexcusable to not do so at any time. With power comes the burden of responsibility. That thing that she must do, is to respect her slave hard limits, and of coarse she may hospitalize the slave.

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Water sports

Water sports also known by the more clinical term urolagnia is sexual excitement derived through urine or urination.  Under this heading there are many fetishes, bdsm, and sexual role play that people may decide to try that involve urine.  Without singling out one specific activity I am choosing to focus on the risks and safety issues.  Urine is essentially safe for most sexual activities outside of the body.  Just beware of abrasions, cuts, or pimples on the skin as those can be potential infection sites if your partner has some sort of bacterial infection in their urine such as Chlamydia or Gonorrhea.



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On bed and collared . . .

Sex By the Numbers

In December 2011, Sarah Jio compiled interesting statistics about sex and experts' opinions about the stats.

Here are a few of her findings.

• 84% of women have sex to get their guy to do more around the house.
• 12% of married people sleep alone.
• The average person has sex 103 times per year.
• 48% of women have faked an orgasm.

Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey -- Sexual Satisfaction (2011) Highlights:

In 2011, the Durex survey asked about the frequency of sex versus people's satisfaction levels. When looking at both scores, Japan was among the lowest, but the U.S. and U.K. were lower than many other countries.

There is also a "range of activities chart" to view.

• "Satisfaction with what we do 'in the bedroom' is mediocre ... we're not as happy as we could be or want to be."
• "Almost 2/3 of us don't feel we have sex often enough."
• "Half believe our sex lives lack excitement & variety."

What is a cougar?

A cougar is an older woman who is primarily attracted to and has sex with with significantly younger men.

The most commonly-accepted definition of a cougar is a woman 40 years of age or older who exclusively pursues very young men. The onset of the cougar years is hotly debated. Some feel that a cougar can be as young as 35, but women of this age would not be viewed as cougars unless their sexual conquests were no older than 25; the ten-year age difference seems to be an unspoken but accepted minimum between partners.

Typically, cougars prey upon men almost young enough to be their sons. Thus forty something cougars would be attracted to men in their 20s, and fifty something cougars would pursue men in their 30s and so on. Some cougars are less interested in a relationship than a sexual conquest, perhaps enjoying the fact that they are physically appealing to men who are considered to be in the prime of their virility.

A cougar may be married or unmarried, and some even go after their daughters' boyfriends.

Although the term 'cougar' comes from the big-game predatory cat of the same name, the cougar connection also may allude to the wearing of animal print clothing by older and more sexually aggressive women.

Ready and willing . . .

While anal play may be considered kinky and somewhat taboo, it's a sexual practice that more than a few men and women, regardless of sexual orientation, enjoy. In men, this potent pleasure point is the prostate, which is found inside their anal canal. The prostate's primary function, however, is to aid in reproduction. It does this by secreting a fluid into semen before ejaculation occurs, helping with sperm mobility and prolonging the life of the sperm once it leaves the penis.

Before anal play, it can be helpful for your partner to urinate an

and/or have a bowel movement before you begin. You can cut and file smooth your fingernails as well, so that there are no rough or jagged edges. Relaxation is also important, minimizing or preventing the possibility of tearing the thin lining of the rectum, and setting the stage for pleasure. Some people relax by taking a warm bath. Others begin by sensuously massaging their partner's body, slowly leading to the butt and inner thighs, using or adding massage oil or lubricant. For safer anal play, you can wear a latex glove with a dab of water-based lubricant on it.

When you are both ready, you can begin massaging your partner's prostate externally. Using your index and middle fingertips, you can touch, rub, stroke, or press his perineum (the area of skin from underneath his testicles to his anus), trying various sensations and pressures. Using your other hand, you can stroke other parts of his body for additional arousal. This is the beginning of the massage, so encourage your partner to communicate with you about what feels good to him.

As your partner begins to enjoy the sensations, using water-based lube, gradually insert your finger(s) into his anus. You may both need to experiment with various positions that allow for easy access. In the meantime, you can begin with him lying on his back. Insert your finger(s) about an inch or so, and when your partner is comfortable, move your finger(s) in an upward motion along the wall of the rectal lining that faces the front of his body. Try to locate a round bulb of tissue — this is the prostate.

Once you locate this area, move your finger(s) in a "come here" motion, as if you were asking someone to move closer to you so that you could whisper a secret. Use your finger pad(s) on the tip(s) of your finger(s) to massage the prostate, and be mindful of not using your nail(s). Ask him what feels good and how he wants to be touched. While you are touching your partner in this way, you can ask if he wants more or less pressure, or slower or faster strokes. You can also ask him if he wants you to touch his penis, testicles, or perineum simultaneously.

Some men like oral sex or kissing at the same time, too.

Be aware that receiving anal stimulation may cause feelings of having to go to the bathroom. More often than not, this is just a "feeling" that the stimulation causes and may take some getting used to. If your partner indeed does find pleasure from this experience, it might set him over the edge if you rhythmically or irregularly press on his prostate gland before or during ejaculation. It is even possible for men to orgasm through prostate stimulation alone.

What do women over 50 or 60 talk about?

 

 

 

Well, last week the only thing on the minds of a bunch of my pals as we tucked into great piles of shepherd's pie and a couple of bottles of Burgundy was sex.

Read more:

When Sex Leaves the Marriage

Why do some couples sizzle while others fizzle? Social scientists are studying no-sex marriages for clues about what can go wrong in relationships.

Married men and women, on average, have sex with their spouse 58 times a year, a little more than once a week, according to data collected from the General Social Survey, which has tracked the social behaviors of Americans since 1972. But there are wide variations in that number. Married people under 30 have sex about 111 times a year. And it’s estimated that about 15 percent of married couples have not had sex with their spouse in the last six months to one year, according to Denise A. Donnelly, associate professor of sociology at Georgia State University, who has studied sexless marriage.   Read full article

From Literotica

I really think that you are going to enjoy reading this one.

 

Trying Something New

bydm_holly©

This story contains sex so read at your discretion. Please note that there is contact between a happily married couple and another man.


The story:

It had been an exhausting day at work. Early that afternoon it had turned cold and grey, just another winter day. Luckily for me we were heading over to Olympia Resort. Its nothing too great but it's in our price range and they have an indoor pool. My husband mark had made all the arrangements. Since we were dead at work I decided to cut out work early and head home. I was looking forward to having some time alone with Mark.

Pulling up the lane, I was pleasantly surprised to see my hubby's truck parked in front of the house. Last night Mark made a big deal about packing for us. Not sure what he had in mind but was a little excited to see what he wanted me to wear for him. I walked into the house and he was all ready. He got into his truck and we were off. Summers in Wisconsin are great but the winters can be a little gray. We didn't talk much on the drive, and I started thinking about the ways we could spend the time together.

Pulling up to the resort something came over us, it was around seven at night, but a second wind if you will. I could feel a twinge between my legs at the thought of crawling naked into bed with him. I could see the plumes of smoke coming up from the chimney and I was welcomed by the warm heat of the fire when I went inside.

We both were excited and wanted to let our hair down. It's been a very long and heard year. We checked in and ran to our room as we were ready to get this party started. I told Mark to select my outfit for the night, grabbed my beauty bag, and went to take a shower. Mark left the room to park the car. I told him to change before he left and to take his time returning. I wanted to be stunning for his return and then our night could begin. Since we were eating on property there would be no reason to drive. So that gave Mark time to enjoy the bar.

I wanted tonight to be perfect and enjoyed taking my time getting ready. After a nice warm shower to get me fresh. One thing that men don't understand is the amount of time it takes to prepare one self for the night. From makeup, perfume, and making sure one has the perfect outfit with accessories for the night. Not too bad, thirty minutes later and I was off to the bar to find my husband.

As I made my way over to my husband I noticed this hunk next to him. Right next to my husband was this beautiful man leaning against a table in front of the fireplace was this incredibly gorgeous man, wearing a flannel shirt, and sexy formfitting blue jeans. This man was talking to my husband, and let me tell you that they looked beautiful with the fireplace radiating behind them. Walking up to them I became very nervous. My husband greeted me with a warm kiss and then introduced me to his new friend: Shawn.

The waitress came and we placed a round of drinks. Luckily for me there was a nice merlot wine that I've been dying to try. Shawn charmed both of us with his quick and funny whit. I had to take inventory of the moment: a great glass of wine and two hot studs! My husband had strong Russian facial features while Shawn looked very French. Anyone could tell that these men where in shape and boy did I want to feel their strength.

Mark invited Shawn to join us for dinner. He happily accepted and the two men escorted me to the restaurant. All during dinner the men charmed me and I playfully slapped them as they made naughty comments. The conversation turned to a sexual nature and we all glowed with heat. I was hoping to be the cream filling desert with my two men.

Shawn picked up the check, saying that it would be his honor. How could we refuse his offer and Mark offered Shawn a nightcap in our room. The men were perfect gentlemen as the lead the way. Good thing as my legs were rubber and needed them to hold me. Once back to our room, I had to visit the ladies room. What I really need was a fresh pair of panties!

As I rounded the corner to the bedroom, I thought I heard a soft low moan. Slowly and quietly I crept around the corner, I didn't want to startle them. Part of me was really hoping to catch a good glimpse of Shawn before he realized I was there. Peaking around the corner, it took me a moment to set eyes on him, and what a shock I received when I did!

Shawn's head was leaning back on the couch cushion, eyes closed, and soft moans coming from deep inside him. The reason Shawn was moaning, was that between his legs, lying on the floor was my husband. Wearing only his jeans, they had been unbuckled and were exposing the small of his back above his ass. I could see the muscles tighten and contract as he was lightly humping the floor. In his mouth was this strangers hard cock, and he was sucking it with such vigor and enthusiasm I could hear the slurping noises from my hiding spot in the doorway.

Shawn's hands were on my husbands head, guiding him up and down, and I watched as Mark used his hands to pull the skin of the stranger's cock tight, then loose, moving with the rhythm of his mouth.

Standing there in the shadows I could feel the heat rise up my chest. I swear that my dress became skin tight and restricted me from breathing, as my hot juices were soaking my panties. I had never been so turned on by the sight of something in my life. My nipples were poking through the soft material; I could not resist reaching up and squeezing one between my fingers. I took my other hand and pressed the hard against my pussy, a quick shudder ran up my spine as I did.

Suddenly the stranger pushed Mark's mouth up and off of him, moving him so that Mark would be lying on his back. Shawn pulled down my husband's pants, and Mark's cock sprang out from underneath. This man started kissing and biting the smooth skin of Mark's hips, one of my favorite things to do. I could almost smell the familiar, soft, musky scent I knew was filling his senses at that moment. He quickly got right down to it, picking up the head of Mark's cock in his mouth, tasting it with his tongue, squeezing the head between his lips. He pulled the pants down a little further and Mark bent his legs at the knees. The stranger reached up and put a hand between his legs, and judging from the look on Mark's face, he must have been pushing one of his fingers against the tight nub of Mark's asshole, teasing it, maybe even inserting the tip of his finger. Mark's hand went up to cover his eyes, and I heard him whisper, "Oh god, oh yes."

By this point I had quietly unzipped my dress, and allowed it to fall to the floor. In one quick and brave moment I removed my bra and soaked panties. Now, I was nude standing in front of these men. I was eagerly rubbing the hard nub of my clit, very much aware of the wet noises I was making, trying very hard not to make my presence known. I was so afraid that they saw me, they would be so shocked would stop what they were doing. But the excitement I was feeling was so overwhelming, I must have let out an audible groan, for at that moment the stranger looked up, staring right at me.

I smiled at him, and lifted a finger to my lips so that he would not make my presence known. I crept quietly into the room, as he proceeded to suck Mark off. I approached my husband, still lying there with his hands covering his eyes, leaned down and softly kissed him on the lips. His hand flew off his face, and his eyes jerked open. I smiled at him and leaned down to kiss him more passionately. His hand came up, and found its way to my breast, pinching the nipples with his fingers. I felt a tug on my jeans, and realized the stranger was pulling them down around to my knees, and I was shocked to feel an unfamiliar touch on my wet pussy. I allowed him to touch me a bit longer, excited by the new feeling, and then I stood up and pulled my jeans right off.

Mark sat up and looked at me sheepishly. I could tell he was pleased by my reaction, but maybe a little shocked too. I stood over him, straddling him with my legs and lowered myself down, letting the soft hair of my pussy rub against his nose allowing his to feel it's warmth as I moved down, letting my nipple pass over his lips for a moment, then wrapping my hot wet pussy around his still erect cock. At first the stranger seemed a little lost what to do, so I took his hand and brought him closer, to stand beside Mark. Mark turned his head and took the stranger's cock back in his mouth and started to suck him with more enthusiasm than he did before. I looked up at the man and he looked down at me, obviously pleased.

It wasn't long before I could tell the stranger was about to cum. I stopped moving for a moment, pressed myself hard against Mark, as he eagerly awaited the release of this strange man. He took the back of Mark's head in his hands and let out a loud moan as he released into Mark's mouth. I could see him eagerly swallowing the cum as it shot into him, and felt my own mouth water as I noticed a small amount escape his lips and move down his chin.

Shawn released Mark, who turned to look at me. I took his head in my hands and leaned in to kiss him, wanting to taste the cum still on his lips. I kissed him long and hard, sucking lightly on his tongue, biting at his lips. All the while I was riding his cock, holding him tight against me, sliding my pussy up and down, his hands were tightly grasping my ass, keeping up with the rhythm of my movements.

Mark broke the kiss, and moved to lift me off of him. He turned me around and while on my knees, he pushed me forward into the couch. He held my hands down tight, rammed his cock into me and began fucking me from behind. I could see the stranger in the reflection of the fireplace doors, as he moved behind Mark, bent over and began licking his balls and ass. Mark slowed his thrusts when he did this, but they became harder and deeper, almost lifting me off the floor. I was suddenly startled to find a strange hand reach around and start rubbing my clit, and I realized that it wasn't Mark's. This man seemed to know exactly how to touch me, rubbing my hard wet nub, sending shivers right through me. My breasts were pushed up against the couch cushions, I took a hand from Mark's grasp and began rubbing my nipples, squeezing and pulling at them.

This was almost too much for me to bear. I could feel my orgasm coming on. My breath quickened, my moans got louder as I tensed up and pushed my hips back into Mark, forcing him as deep as he could go. The shudder that moved through me was so deep, I forgot where I was for a moment and became so enthralled with the feeling of it. My head was spinning, my hips buckling, I felt like I would explode. I closed my eyes and screamed in ecstasy, pushing my face into the cushions to muffle the loud sound.

At that same moment, I felt Mark tense up behind me, and I could tell he was about to cum. I could see in the reflection the stranger was on his knees behind him, fingering his asshole like I know he loves, and Mark thrust hard and fast into me, shooting his hot cum into my throbbing pussy, still pulsating from my orgasm moments before.

Mark collapsed on top of me, and I could feel his heart pounding against my back. Once I caught my own breath, I turned around and looked right at him. He smiled at me, still breathing heavy with his sweat dripping from his brow. He kissed me and said, "Wow baby that was hot!"

I looked up at the Shawn, held out my hand, and said, "It's been a pleasure to meet you".

Shawn took my hand, "The pleasure has been all mine."

Shawn dressed and went off to his room.

Do you think we can find this in East TN?

Can you believe 60+

I have always thought that being with someone who is both a male and a female would be enticingly erotic.  While in the Navy, I had a chance to come face-to-face with a shemale in Spain, but in my innocent state-of-mind, did nothing about it.

Today, I regret not having that experience.

It would be nice to know what others think or may have experienced, either from a solo standpoint or with your spouse.