Sucking in the car



Sucking afterwards



Sucking just to be sucking

How to attract women

(an opinion)

Women are naturally attracted to men they can't easily have. Humans tend to want what they can't have, so therefore he bought it, even with a higher price. Now the main point here is that women tend to do something similar with men they can't have. They attach a higher value to a man who is hard to get. The same concept applies here as well. If a man is engaged, has a girl friend or is married to someone else, it automatically makes him wanted. Attraction tends to intensify when the man is hard to get. When he is already taken by someone else. It makes him even more desirable. You are walking down the street and you see a big crowd. It suddenly catches your attention and you get curious to know what's going on. You go closer and realize everyone is looking at a box.  Now you don't see anything special about this box because it looks just like any other ordinary box. But would you just walk away? No, instead you stand there to find out what is so special about this box and wonder, "Why is everyone looking at it?"

Similarly, if a guy is surrounded by lots of women he will naturally attract more women because every female would feel there must be something special and unique about this guy due to which he is surrounded by all these females. Naturally, they would get curious too and be willing to know more about you. Many guys approach women in a very obvious and predictable way. They make their intentions so obvious that the woman can't help but feel repulsion towards them. Women are quick to scan the male body language and within seconds, they form a judgment regarding whether they would like to carry on the interaction with a certain male or not. As you know, attractive women are used to being approached by regular guys, and they rarely find a guy who is different than the average crowd.

Women expect men to react in a certain way. For example a beautiful woman who spends a lot of time in front of the mirror trying to look good always expects men to show attention regardless of where she is. She expects a certain type of reaction and is used to getting that reaction from all men. This is the reason why when they are hit with something unique and unpredictable it triggers instant attraction. The true key to attraction is to do something she never expects. Consider being in conversation with a beautiful woman and saying "I really like you. You are so pretty and have a great personality. Would you date me?" or "I like you but I am not sure if we would get along. I mean. I don't think you can handle me." Which line do you think will get her more curious?

Well there are no prizes for guessing here, because obviously the second line is more powerful and will make her brain fire instantly. She would think. "Wait a minute. This guy is telling me I can't handle him? Does this mean I am not good enough for him? He seems so different from other guys. I must know more about him." And there is nothing she can do to stop herself from feeling this way. Her emotions will instantly overpower her complete frame and she won't be able to do anything but feel attracted. Why do you think some antique items are sold for stunningly high prices, and in most cases, these are the items, which aren't even usable? Does this mean people are just plain stupid spending thousands and even millions on certain antique items? Well no...But what is the deal here?

These items are perceived, as high value even though they might be of no use but the value public attaches to them is massive. This same concept applies to women and attraction. You will be considered attractive in the female mind as long as you are perceived as a male of high value. A girl will label you a high value male when she considers you to be more important than her. As long as you maintain the upper hand, you will always be considered as a high value male.

Therefore, the key here is to make yourself seem more important than the girl. Here are certain guidelines to being a high value male: never tries to impress her; never seeks female attention or approval; never puts a girl on a pedestal only because she is good looking; never settles for anything but the best; never keeps women on top of his priority list; is always willing to walk away when his principles are violated; always makes the woman work for his attention; has more than enough options to choose from; makes the girl adapt to his reality instead of adapting to hers; never chases females. As long as you demonstrate all these traits, you will always be considered as a high value male, and women won't be able to help but feel attraction towards you.



Cum on in . . .



Dump a load here . . .

I've been waiting just for you . . .

When should I go in for the first kiss?

(Part 3 of 3)

 

Love and sex are among the things that make our lives better and increase our pleasure to live. But every good thing has a less pleasurable side and one must admit that a lot of stress is associated with these delightful activities. The first touch, the first kiss, the first evening out, the first night spent together, all these key moments of the early part of a relationship can be very stressful for both partners. Some people think that these moments can make or break relationships, but the issue is still up for debate. Not everybody gets it right the first time and many first nights spent together are not that great. It takes time to learn what the other likes, wants and looks for in and out of bed, so there are bound to be a lot of early fumbles and mistakes.

On the plus side, these awkward moments may end up as sweet memories two lovers can laugh about years later. Still, a mistake is a mistake and the fewer one does, the better off everybody is. Since you both are most likely to be nervous the first time, make sure you set the stage for this event. When you feel you are both comfortable with each other and that your relationship has advanced enough to warrant a more intimate approach, make a plan for the setting of the first kiss. Choose a location you are familiar with and whose main feature is intimacy. There is also an ungodly amount of hype surrounding first kisses. The two partners should, allegedly, hear bells ringing or feel like having a thousand butterflies in their stomachs and other such nonsense.

Don't let such ideas put you off if the first kiss was not followed by a huge display of fireworks. Cherish it as the first step toward what may prove to be a special relationship and move forward. In other words, kiss her because you both feel like it, not because it's some sort of ritual, and do it at your own pace and in your own style. If you are not certain of what she wants or likes, then don't rush into a French kiss. Brush your lips gently against hers, look into her eyes for the confirmation and then come back for a second try with a more resolute approach. If she does not recoil, then you can be a bit more firm. But the gentle brushing is a very good idea for the first kiss. It will net you points for both control and tenderness.

Unless you are the type who jumps head first into anything and just hopes for the best, you may want to actually take a moment and think about this before doing anything. A lonely bench in the park at sunset is a good idea. The doorstep of her parents' house is not. Don't make a hasty affair of the first kiss because your girlfriend is very likely to remember this for a long time afterwards. Pick a quiet spot, where nobody is going to bustle in on you just as you're getting ready to share a pleasant moment.

Make sure your hygiene is fit for this occasion: no bad breath, no smelly body. No fancy stuff on the first kiss. There'll be time enough for this later on. Don't spoil the moment by trying something really special and making a mess of it. Stick to a slow and gentle kiss that paves the way for the more advanced stuff to come. Just focus on sliding into each other's arms, finding a comfortable position and kissing away to heart's content. If you can pull this off without a hitch, then you can say your first kiss with that partner was a complete success.

PERFECT!

What not to do when kissing
(Part 2 of 3)

When it comes to sex and love, there's no such thing as too much knowledge. No matter how much experience one has, there are always some things that were missed, some bits of information that did not reach him or her. And since most people have other things to do with their lives than striving to become a sort of walking sex and love encyclopedias, it follows that everybody needs tips now and then.

Among the physical expressions of love, kisses are very versatile tools in the emotional kit of any human being. From the short and tender kiss of a grandmother, to heads of state briefly touching their lips to each other's cheeks and on to passionate lovers French kissing their way to a hot session of sex, it's obvious that our lips can express many things. And since the best kisses are those that come out right, some tips are in order for the use of people who either don't get much practice or are not catching up fast on what they should do. Don't laugh! Nobody was born knowing how to do this or that thing. We all have to learn.

While we can all be thankful to the French for opening the door to the intimate play of tongues (although it's not clear whether the French kiss comes from Paris or not), kissing is actually a universal language that can be learnt by all people. Traditionally, French kissing has been associated with the Western world, from which it's now spreading around the globe. When preparing to go for the kiss, take your time for a reality check. Is the girl willing to go along with this or not? If you're about to make your approach and the girl gets an embarrassed look on her face and starts fidgeting in her chair in what may be seen as an evasive maneuver, then pull back and give her some breathing space.

Don't rush things because you're going to regret it. First thing you need to know is that French kisses are not meant for the first date, unless, of course, the girl is quite the party animal and you both know that your date has only one purpose. In that case, anything goes if you can get away with it; even sex in the restaurant's lavatory. Or if the girl is so clearly willing that there can be no mistake about it.

But in all other cases, save French kissing either for the end of the date or for another date. Two things that girls hate is to have guys shoving their tongues down their throats and to have their oxygen supply cut off during kissing. Therefore, you need to take care that you leave the girl enough room to breathe or to break the kiss every now and then. This will also help you, because you also need the oxygen. Two people kissing are sharing an intimate moment, not engaging in an endurance test or in a race to the death. When actually going for the kiss, don't charge with your tongue sticking out or your mouth. This can gross out even the hardcore promiscuous people. Put your lips against hers and only then let your tongue come out to play. And don't stab her mouth with your tongue.

Keep your cool and read her emotions. If she wants more passion or a little rough play, then go ahead and do what you think best. If not, then keep your tongue to yourself. On the other hand, if both you and your partner find yourselves exhausted by a prolonged session of passionate kissing, then you are on the right path. It means that she enjoys your kisses and that she probably doesn't mind going even further. Just remember to refrain from rushing things. The slow path is sometimes best.

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Types of kissing
(Part 1 of 3)

People kiss in many different ways. Passionate kisses, friendly kisses, playful kisses, all these variations depend on the moods and relationships between people. A swift kiss before leaving for work in the morning is very different from the longer kiss that precedes a night of passion. Kissing is fun most of the times and people whom you wouldn't like to kiss can usually be kept at a distance. This is an act of intimacy that is not easily forced upon somebody.

The best known type of kiss is the French kiss. You can see it in every movie and is probably used by the largest part of young and adult lovers around the world. French kiss means that the two partners kiss with open lips and their tongues touch. I'm not sure if the French have actually been the first to kiss like that, but let's say the name is a tribute to the city of lovers, Paris. The two partners can use their tongues to explore each other's mouths. This is actually up to the imagination of the two people involved, since there are far too many ways in which the play of tongues can underscore tenderness and passion.

A good one is the kiss that is meant to surprise and to convey intensity, rather than tenderness. When your lover is working, sleeping or generally absorbed by something, plant a quick kiss on her lips by surprise. Be careful not to spoil the surprise. Kiss her hard (or light) and fast to show her that you love her and that you are in a playful mood. Afterwards you can choose between retreating and leaving her to her business or going for more kisses. A break from work has never hurt anybody.

Another kind of kiss much favored by passionate lovers focuses on the lips instead of the inside of the mouth. This is very much a kiss designed to convey a strong sense of passion and a lack of inhibitions. The basic idea is to suck gently on one of your partner's lips. Since she is likely to have her mouth slightly open in expectation of a French kiss, this can be easily accomplished. Just pick one of the lips and suck gently on it for a second or two. Make sure you are very gentle about it because injuries are no fun. A variation of the kiss described above is meant to add yet another twist to the passion that unfolds between you and her.

While sucking on your lover's lip, use your teeth to bite her lip very gently. Just nip on it, don't go for a full fledged bite. This type kiss should be used by lovers who have kissed before. It's not exactly the kind of thing one does on the first date. The options are endless here. Don't be afraid to experiment with your lover and to show your passion and tenderness. Sincere and passionate kisses are among the best things in life.

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Where is she?



here I am . . .



but, I have bigger boobs...

This blog is positively delightful, and a really interesting read! Here is a description of what they are attempting (and in my opinion succeeding) to build: "Gabe and Elizabeth want to create a sex documentary collection, an authentic representation of the complex sexuality of two unique people in relationship. You may find that our offerings differ from commercial porn in a number of ways. We look to document our own desires and actions, trusting that offering up our real life together will turn others on, and will provide a contrast to the commercialization of sex in our culture. We are body-positive — eager to celebrate the beauty in all bodies. We value communication, honesty, education and fun." I really enjoyed them, because they seem to be full of play and reverence when they discuss each other. Their writing is thought provoking, and manages to be original in a sea of rather similar "sex-positive" voices.


Pornocracy

BIG dicks wanted...

Find the pearls, if you can...

Hungry???

Are you curious about swinging? Are you part of a couple that swings, and you've hit a snag? Do you wish you could talk to a couple of experienced swingers about it? Great! This site is a free advice and opinion blog written by Miranda and Aarron, a couple with a lot of experience that they'd love to share with others. The content is nicely organized, and there is a search function. These folks don't claim to be medical or psychological experts, but they are a couple who have navigated swinging together and found solutions to issues. I found the direct and honest answers here very refreshing, and enjoyed reading things from both of their perspectives.

The Swinger's Attic

This is a first for me, and I’m a little bit flustered to be honest! It is a great honor for me for my good friend Goddess Starla to directly address our community here in her first Vlog episode! I love the fact that Goddess Starla embraces who she...

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White on Black

I wasn't looking, even though I am in a loveless, sexless marriage to a white man.

I have always liked black men but I never would openly admit it to many people. A handful of my friends knew and my best friend always knew that I liked black men.

It all happened because of a meeting of 2 people who knew each other by voice only. He wanted to meet me and I agreed but I didn't pull thru. I don't know why and it wasn't because I found out he was black after not knowing this for many years.

I hoped and I prayed that he did not think that his color was the reason.

Less than 2 years later we started to talk again and we began what I think was more flirting between the 2 of us then before. I knew that he is married and has children and he knew about me being married and several other "personal" things about each other.

After 2 month of flirting, he gave me his cell phone and told me to call him anytime I felt like talking. I told him that I would and at that time I couldn't give him mine and he understood.

I had gone out with friends and taken some pictures and decided I was going to send him my picture in hopes of not scaring him when he sees it. He received it said that I looked very nice. At the time, my cell did not get pics and he had no pics for me to see him but would try and get one to me.

In the next few weeks, I asked him if he still wanted to meet me and he did so we made plans. I told him that I hope he didn't take my comments (sexual flirts) the wrong way and he said we were friends and we will see what happens. I told him I sent the picture ahead so I wouldn't scare him and he would have the opportunity to change his mind about meeting me.

My marriage had been without sex for several years and I just resided myself to being without sex and living like roommates and not man and wife anymore.

I can still remember getting dressed and hoping to look nice and make a good impression. I didn't go there with anything going to happen between us as I had a low self esteem of myself and thought I was fat and ugly.

I tried by his descriptions of himself what he looked like so I was going in with an open mind and friendship.

When I saw him walking towards me, he had a sexy smile that could melt an iceberg and was looking hot. I must have forgotten myself, but I usually greet people with a kiss and that's exactly what I did. I planted a short but sexy kiss on his lips and he didn't seem to mind.

We talked and laughed and I had to find out if he was disappointed and he said he wasn't and then he asked me the same and I told him that I wasn't disappointed at at.

The next thing we knew it we were in each others arms and kissing passionately and I could feel myself getting wet and excited like never before. He reached for my tit and I let him touch me. I loved it and then I end up in front of him as he held me by the waist and reached up to feel up my tits. It felt so good to me and it must have to him as I could feel what I knew was a hard on behind me.

I turned to face and look up at him and he was smiling and he told me that he had to let me go because it was getting heated and we weren't in the proper place for what we both thought my happen next.

He walked me to my car and climbed inside the passenger's side and reached for and unbuttoned my blouse and I let him feel me up again and he reach around to unfasten my bra. He took my hand and put it on his crotch as I could feel his huge *ock ready to rip thru his shorts.

We made a date to meet in a few days after our first meeting and we were making love, I was sucking him off and I knew right there and then I was in love with him.

That was five years ago and we are still going strong and meeting and sneaking around and satisfying each others needs every chance that we can.

We aren't looking to leave our partners as he has a nice home and my husband just came into a little over a half million dollars and I want some.

My black man is my world

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PEGGING

Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on dildo. The neologism "pegging" was popularized when it became the winning entry in a contest in Dan Savage's Savage Love sex advice column, held after an observation was made that there was no common name for the act.

Examples

The 1970 film Myra Breckinridge (film) infamously features Raquel Welch pegging an unwilling man.

In the 2011 movie On ne choisit pas sa famille, César Borgnoli, alias Christian Clavier, is pegged by Kim alias Muriel Robin.

The 2008 film Zack and Miri Make a Porno features pegging between characters played by Traci Lords and Ricky Mabe.

There is a depiction of pegging in the William S. Burroughs novel Naked Lunch. The dildo used in the scene is called a Steely Dan III, and is the source from which the musical group Steely Dan takes its name.

The 2007 film YPF features a storyline in which a couple who feel their lovemaking has become boring over time, attempt to spice up their sex by trying pegging.

Pegging was featured in the 2005 series of the UK comedy Peep Show (2005).

It was featured in the television show Weeds, during the episode "Crush Girl Love Panic" (2006).

It was featured in the premier episode of Shameless.

In the pilot episode of Dirt (2007), Lucy Spiller (Courteney Cox) blackmails Prince Tyreese (Rick Fox) with photographs of him being pegged by a prostitute.

The theatre company Pack of Others have an entire theatrical performance devoted to "spreading the word about the pleasures of prostate stimulation and strap-on sex.^"

The show has toured nationally and won Best Comedy at the 2008 San Francisco Fringe Festival

Dan Savage was the guest on The Colbert Report on November 29, 2010.

During the interview Savage educated host Stephen Colbert on the practice of pegging.

In the 1973 dystopian novel Regiment of Women by Thomas Berger, the practice is a form of "anal therapy" for men.