TODOS

there are always lists
of things to do,
when we finish one,
we start another,
never blinking eyes,
never questioning;
lives revolve around
and depend upon lists,
crossing off the items
on by one
is almost spiritual
for some
while others delay
and procrastinate,
waiting till the end
or near end
to get it done;
but,
regardless
of the flow,
we always start again,
a never ending game
until death
stops us cold.

24Jul14

Setting the Standard

Great Sex

Do you remember the great sex you experienced the first time you made love with your partner and the bolts of passionate electricity that surged through your body?

You can have the passionate lovemaking of the first time with your partner every time. Each time you make love with your partner can be a first -- a new discovery that ignites fiery passion and stimulates the most intimate places of your body, mind and soul.

If you're like most couples, maintaining a passionate and satisfying sexual relationship can sometimes seem like an elusive mystery. Experts report that most couples are dissatisfied with their sex lives and infidelity is rampant. Everyone wants great sex and fidelity and yet no one is quite sure how to attain it or maintain it.

Even a couple who is very much in love can lose the passion they once shared. It's very easy to fall into a routine which leads to boredom and lack of excitement. The hustle and bustle of everyday life can whittle away your intimacy and leave little time for important nurturing necessary for your sexual relationship. Your sex life gets pushed to the bottom of your priority list and passion dissipates.

Sucking in the car



Sucking afterwards



Sucking just to be sucking

How to attract women

(an opinion)

Women are naturally attracted to men they can't easily have. Humans tend to want what they can't have, so therefore he bought it, even with a higher price. Now the main point here is that women tend to do something similar with men they can't have. They attach a higher value to a man who is hard to get. The same concept applies here as well. If a man is engaged, has a girl friend or is married to someone else, it automatically makes him wanted. Attraction tends to intensify when the man is hard to get. When he is already taken by someone else. It makes him even more desirable. You are walking down the street and you see a big crowd. It suddenly catches your attention and you get curious to know what's going on. You go closer and realize everyone is looking at a box.  Now you don't see anything special about this box because it looks just like any other ordinary box. But would you just walk away? No, instead you stand there to find out what is so special about this box and wonder, "Why is everyone looking at it?"

Similarly, if a guy is surrounded by lots of women he will naturally attract more women because every female would feel there must be something special and unique about this guy due to which he is surrounded by all these females. Naturally, they would get curious too and be willing to know more about you. Many guys approach women in a very obvious and predictable way. They make their intentions so obvious that the woman can't help but feel repulsion towards them. Women are quick to scan the male body language and within seconds, they form a judgment regarding whether they would like to carry on the interaction with a certain male or not. As you know, attractive women are used to being approached by regular guys, and they rarely find a guy who is different than the average crowd.

Women expect men to react in a certain way. For example a beautiful woman who spends a lot of time in front of the mirror trying to look good always expects men to show attention regardless of where she is. She expects a certain type of reaction and is used to getting that reaction from all men. This is the reason why when they are hit with something unique and unpredictable it triggers instant attraction. The true key to attraction is to do something she never expects. Consider being in conversation with a beautiful woman and saying "I really like you. You are so pretty and have a great personality. Would you date me?" or "I like you but I am not sure if we would get along. I mean. I don't think you can handle me." Which line do you think will get her more curious?

Well there are no prizes for guessing here, because obviously the second line is more powerful and will make her brain fire instantly. She would think. "Wait a minute. This guy is telling me I can't handle him? Does this mean I am not good enough for him? He seems so different from other guys. I must know more about him." And there is nothing she can do to stop herself from feeling this way. Her emotions will instantly overpower her complete frame and she won't be able to do anything but feel attracted. Why do you think some antique items are sold for stunningly high prices, and in most cases, these are the items, which aren't even usable? Does this mean people are just plain stupid spending thousands and even millions on certain antique items? Well no...But what is the deal here?

These items are perceived, as high value even though they might be of no use but the value public attaches to them is massive. This same concept applies to women and attraction. You will be considered attractive in the female mind as long as you are perceived as a male of high value. A girl will label you a high value male when she considers you to be more important than her. As long as you maintain the upper hand, you will always be considered as a high value male.

Therefore, the key here is to make yourself seem more important than the girl. Here are certain guidelines to being a high value male: never tries to impress her; never seeks female attention or approval; never puts a girl on a pedestal only because she is good looking; never settles for anything but the best; never keeps women on top of his priority list; is always willing to walk away when his principles are violated; always makes the woman work for his attention; has more than enough options to choose from; makes the girl adapt to his reality instead of adapting to hers; never chases females. As long as you demonstrate all these traits, you will always be considered as a high value male, and women won't be able to help but feel attraction towards you.



Cum on in . . .



Dump a load here . . .

I've been waiting just for you . . .

When should I go in for the first kiss?

(Part 3 of 3)

 

Love and sex are among the things that make our lives better and increase our pleasure to live. But every good thing has a less pleasurable side and one must admit that a lot of stress is associated with these delightful activities. The first touch, the first kiss, the first evening out, the first night spent together, all these key moments of the early part of a relationship can be very stressful for both partners. Some people think that these moments can make or break relationships, but the issue is still up for debate. Not everybody gets it right the first time and many first nights spent together are not that great. It takes time to learn what the other likes, wants and looks for in and out of bed, so there are bound to be a lot of early fumbles and mistakes.

On the plus side, these awkward moments may end up as sweet memories two lovers can laugh about years later. Still, a mistake is a mistake and the fewer one does, the better off everybody is. Since you both are most likely to be nervous the first time, make sure you set the stage for this event. When you feel you are both comfortable with each other and that your relationship has advanced enough to warrant a more intimate approach, make a plan for the setting of the first kiss. Choose a location you are familiar with and whose main feature is intimacy. There is also an ungodly amount of hype surrounding first kisses. The two partners should, allegedly, hear bells ringing or feel like having a thousand butterflies in their stomachs and other such nonsense.

Don't let such ideas put you off if the first kiss was not followed by a huge display of fireworks. Cherish it as the first step toward what may prove to be a special relationship and move forward. In other words, kiss her because you both feel like it, not because it's some sort of ritual, and do it at your own pace and in your own style. If you are not certain of what she wants or likes, then don't rush into a French kiss. Brush your lips gently against hers, look into her eyes for the confirmation and then come back for a second try with a more resolute approach. If she does not recoil, then you can be a bit more firm. But the gentle brushing is a very good idea for the first kiss. It will net you points for both control and tenderness.

Unless you are the type who jumps head first into anything and just hopes for the best, you may want to actually take a moment and think about this before doing anything. A lonely bench in the park at sunset is a good idea. The doorstep of her parents' house is not. Don't make a hasty affair of the first kiss because your girlfriend is very likely to remember this for a long time afterwards. Pick a quiet spot, where nobody is going to bustle in on you just as you're getting ready to share a pleasant moment.

Make sure your hygiene is fit for this occasion: no bad breath, no smelly body. No fancy stuff on the first kiss. There'll be time enough for this later on. Don't spoil the moment by trying something really special and making a mess of it. Stick to a slow and gentle kiss that paves the way for the more advanced stuff to come. Just focus on sliding into each other's arms, finding a comfortable position and kissing away to heart's content. If you can pull this off without a hitch, then you can say your first kiss with that partner was a complete success.