How to attract women

(an opinion)

Women are naturally attracted to men they can't easily have. Humans tend to want what they can't have, so therefore he bought it, even with a higher price. Now the main point here is that women tend to do something similar with men they can't have. They attach a higher value to a man who is hard to get. The same concept applies here as well. If a man is engaged, has a girl friend or is married to someone else, it automatically makes him wanted. Attraction tends to intensify when the man is hard to get. When he is already taken by someone else. It makes him even more desirable. You are walking down the street and you see a big crowd. It suddenly catches your attention and you get curious to know what's going on. You go closer and realize everyone is looking at a box.  Now you don't see anything special about this box because it looks just like any other ordinary box. But would you just walk away? No, instead you stand there to find out what is so special about this box and wonder, "Why is everyone looking at it?"

Similarly, if a guy is surrounded by lots of women he will naturally attract more women because every female would feel there must be something special and unique about this guy due to which he is surrounded by all these females. Naturally, they would get curious too and be willing to know more about you. Many guys approach women in a very obvious and predictable way. They make their intentions so obvious that the woman can't help but feel repulsion towards them. Women are quick to scan the male body language and within seconds, they form a judgment regarding whether they would like to carry on the interaction with a certain male or not. As you know, attractive women are used to being approached by regular guys, and they rarely find a guy who is different than the average crowd.

Women expect men to react in a certain way. For example a beautiful woman who spends a lot of time in front of the mirror trying to look good always expects men to show attention regardless of where she is. She expects a certain type of reaction and is used to getting that reaction from all men. This is the reason why when they are hit with something unique and unpredictable it triggers instant attraction. The true key to attraction is to do something she never expects. Consider being in conversation with a beautiful woman and saying "I really like you. You are so pretty and have a great personality. Would you date me?" or "I like you but I am not sure if we would get along. I mean. I don't think you can handle me." Which line do you think will get her more curious?

Well there are no prizes for guessing here, because obviously the second line is more powerful and will make her brain fire instantly. She would think. "Wait a minute. This guy is telling me I can't handle him? Does this mean I am not good enough for him? He seems so different from other guys. I must know more about him." And there is nothing she can do to stop herself from feeling this way. Her emotions will instantly overpower her complete frame and she won't be able to do anything but feel attracted. Why do you think some antique items are sold for stunningly high prices, and in most cases, these are the items, which aren't even usable? Does this mean people are just plain stupid spending thousands and even millions on certain antique items? Well no...But what is the deal here?

These items are perceived, as high value even though they might be of no use but the value public attaches to them is massive. This same concept applies to women and attraction. You will be considered attractive in the female mind as long as you are perceived as a male of high value. A girl will label you a high value male when she considers you to be more important than her. As long as you maintain the upper hand, you will always be considered as a high value male.

Therefore, the key here is to make yourself seem more important than the girl. Here are certain guidelines to being a high value male: never tries to impress her; never seeks female attention or approval; never puts a girl on a pedestal only because she is good looking; never settles for anything but the best; never keeps women on top of his priority list; is always willing to walk away when his principles are violated; always makes the woman work for his attention; has more than enough options to choose from; makes the girl adapt to his reality instead of adapting to hers; never chases females. As long as you demonstrate all these traits, you will always be considered as a high value male, and women won't be able to help but feel attraction towards you.